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By Cathy Severson

Cathy SeversonWhat’s your vision of growing older? We all know the myth of living happily ever after on the golf course on the one hand. Or the person who goes back to work because they don’t know how to fill their time.

After the first year or two of a ‘honeymoon’ phase, most retirees have either successfully made the transition or struggled. Even though the image of retirement is one of a carefree life, you may be surprised to learn that many people suffer during this phase of their lives. Certainly money can be a factor as to whether or not someone is satisfied, but it isn’t the only issue.

Researchers discovered four categories that people fall into after they have settled into retirement. If you’re already retired, which group do you belong? If you aren’t retired yet, which group do you most identify?

Four Categories of Retirement
At one end of the spectrum are the Clueless. This group may comprise as many as 40% of retirees. They may experience depression and loneliness. They are often bored with their free time choices. They feel the most disconnected from others. They report the least amount of planning or thinking about retirement beforehand.

The Aimless comprise another 22% of retirees. This group is still looking for a sense of satisfaction in retirement. They report feeling neither positive nor negative about retirement. Like the Clueless, they gave little forethought to retirement and are now trying to figure it out. Less than 20% had made plans for hobbies and only 36% have a notion of how much money they would need in their later years.

Directionless consist of 19% of retirees. This group is happy to adjust to a less frantic lifestyle and enjoys the lack of stress of work and raising a family. They are not interested in learning new things, finding meaningful work or getting hobbies. They don’t have any great aspirations, and therefore don’t experience much disappointment. They are content to putter around the house, enjoying their family and friends.

The Motivated Redirected are at the other end of the continuum with 19% of people. They view this period as one filled with new challenges, adventure and personal fulfillment. They have planned for retirement both financially and for activities. They are involved in travel, staying connected to family and friends, and live a healthy lifestyle. They are engaged in meaningful work that may be paid, or unpaid with challenging hobbies, or other leisure activities. They do not keeping busy for the sake of busy-ness, but want to fulfill a sense of destiny. Often there is a change in perspective from individual needs to being altruistic that in turn strengthens their sense of self.

The biggest factor that separates the Clueless, Aimless and Motivated Redirected is taking time to think about the future and plan for the life you want. Think about what is important to you and be willing to experiment with your life to find the enjoyment that can be had during the phase.

Cathy Severson, MS helps you make the most of your retirement. Baby boomers understand this isn’t your parents retirement. Find out how to make the rest of your life the best of your life with the complimentary e-book 7 Ingredients for a Satisfying Retirement at http://tinyurl.com/8moymb

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Dear Friends and Family.

I apologize for my tardiness in this post.  I have been working seriously on  learning this world of internet marketing.  As you can see from the new page links on this site, I am developing many additional areas of interest.  As a result I have found little time to update our personal  web page.  To fill the gap I am posting below an interesting article I found about life in Mexico.  It is certainly food for thought.  I think Mr. Bower and I may be kindred spirits on some things. He also rants about expats hiding in their secluded enclaves in other articles.

Living in Mexico – The Effects of Tourism
By Douglas Bower

Photo by Susan YoungHave you ever wondered if mass tourism actually spoils the very thing it comes to observe in a foreign country? I’ve been wondering this a lot lately. Does the onslaught of tourists flooding into a particular place to enjoy what that place has to offer end up becoming the source of that place’s ruination?

This is both confusing and, of course, a bit hypocritical of me, a travel writer, to even suggest. It has, however, been on my mind.

More than once, I’ve met or corresponded with those who have visited my adopted home of Guanajuato because of the articles my wife and I write. Based on our first two books, one couple attributes their moving to Guanajuato to us. So, in a very real sense I am a source of this problem. I am drawing people here. Hypocrisy?

Massive tourism can put a strain in the infrastructure of any place. Basic services such as water gets stretched to the max. Water, something Americans take for granted, is not as renewable a resource in Guanajuato as it is in most places in the States.

Guanajuato is a mountain desert with a Steppe Climate. It is dependent on the annual rainfall (or lack thereof) to refresh and replenish its reservoirs. The current problem is the last two rainy seasons have not been “up to snuff.” The rains have been sadly lacking and now we’re in trouble.

The influx of tourism this year is making it worse. It seems the tourists just keep coming and coming. This is a good thing for the merchants but how will the city keep the water flowing? Normally, the city implements water rationing measures.

The city cuts off the water supply to certain residential areas throughout the city in hopes of conserving water. Rationing in the neighborhoods is even more severe when the tourists come in hordes, straining the system in the hotels and hostels. The city officials cut water off from the residents so the tourists can bathe and flush the toilets.

The priority here seems a bit a skewed. Are not the city services meant for those who support these services by paying their taxes? I mean, who should come first, the tourists or the citizens of Guanajuato?

One of my wife’s private ESL students told her a horrifying example of how this water shortage works:

1. They have to take sponge baths with their bottled drinking water that they heat on the stove.

2. They have to find a friend or family member somewhere outside the neighborhood with running water to take a weekly shower.

3. Her husband and son have to walk to a public water source to fill buckets with water to flush the toilet.

This goes on while water for the tourists flows freely. I can guarantee you the tourists don’t have to go in search of water to go potty or to sponge out their pits.

It would be lovely if there were a steady and renewable supply of water all the time for everyone. There isn’t! And it seems to me that those who live here, who raise their families here, should have priority.

The main problem is the tourism season for most Americans and Canadians is June through August. That is our rainy season, and if the rains don’t come-there is no water.

Would the tourist season suffer? Maybe. But, the tourists would then be able to have an opportunity to see first hand how real Mexicans in Central Mexico are often forced to live.

THE PLAIN TRUTH ABOUT LIVING IN MEXICO

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Chuck’s Activities 
 
Chuck’s activities can be summed up in a picture better than words… watch the video and see for yourself. 
  
Susan’s Activities
 
Two months into my retirement and two months to go until until Chuck’s.  My days are flying by.  They are occupied with three occupations:  getting fit, learning about starting up an online business and domestic tasks… you know, like shopping, cooking and sometimes even housework. 
 
My personal health goal is to do at least one activity a day that contributes to a healthier and fitter body.  To that end, Staci and I have signed up at the local gym and we are attending yoga classes, sometimes together, sometimes alone.  I have also started to participate in a water aerobics class.  I don’t always make one or the other but when I don’t, I do a session on the stationary bike in the living room and listen to my NLP (neurolinguistic programing ?…aka self hypnosis) recordings.  No major changes but it is becoming easier to stick to the routines than it was when I began. 
 
On the web I am having a blast!  I have half dozen “blogs” going.  My favorites are So Where To From Here, Cheaper Living Tips, Thinking About Losing Weight, and of course the Staci’s Fan Club.  They all have growing traffic counts and I am starting to get inquires for other site owners and advertisers who think they are worth soliciting for ad space.  Note… anytime you click through to a product or web site from one of my pages you add a few cents to my retirement travel fund and I thank you profusely for your contributions.  So feel free to access Amazon, Amway or Google from my web sites! 
 
Just for fun…  Cross Your Eyes  
 
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